The simple answer; I work with clients and their family after a terminal diagnosis/end-of-life and follow a process that includes reflection, planning, and deep communication to achieve a better death. It is my goal to educate on the options available and to ensure that the client and their family has a sense of comfort by demystifying the stages of death. I am a non-medical, supportive role-only, and I provide support during the preparation, active dying, after death care, and bereavement process. It is a profound privilege to help someone fulfill their last wishes and goodbyes, hold their hand when things are uncertain, reassure them it's ok to let go, and sit with them and their family as their consciousness leaves their body.
We prepare for the birth of a child but we typically don't prepare for our death until later in life. While both events are transitional periods, we celebrate one and fear the other. As an End-of-Life Doula, I help clients and their family prepare for their death through conversation, reflection and planning. As children, we are typically shielded from death and so we grow up thinking that death is a taboo conversation topic. But, talking about death is an opportunity to reflect on life and the planning for one's death can be a beautiful way to connect on a deeper level to one's family and to live a fuller life for whatever time they have remaining. The goal is to have a plan set in place for the client's end-of-life care and for a client's wishes to be known by all involved. I work alongside the client's medical team as a non-medical, supportive role only, but will act as an advocate for the client and the client's family. I will guide the client through life's final transition in a personal, peaceful, purposeful and meaningful way.